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回家被催相亲该怎么办

    文章来源:深科心理咨询   时间:2019-11-13 16:50:18

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    回家被催相亲该怎么办

      过节回家被家人催着相亲,到底该怎么办?

      1、告知家人的自己的方案

      BAZIJIDUIRIZIDEGUIHUAGAOZHIJIAREN,XIANZAIZHENGCHUYUGONGZUOSHANGSHENGQI,DUANSHIJIANNEIBUXIANGZHAOMUBIAOCHENGHUN,DANGONGZUOANWENHOUZAIXIANGQIN。GAOZHIJIARENZIJIXIANZAIDEJINGJINENGLIYOUDAIJINBU,XIWANGJIARENNENGJIZIJIYIDUANSHIJIAN,BUYAOBIDETAIJIN。

      2、过节回家是高兴的而不是苦楚的

      GUOJIEHUIJIABEICUIZHEXIANGQINYESHISHIFENDEWUFADESHI,YUANBENGUOJIESHIYAOHUIJIAXIUXIDE,GANCHUXIAJIERIYIJIARENHUANJUZAIYIQIDEGAOXING,ERBUSHIMEITIANBEICUIZHEGENBUTONGDERENXIANGQIN,ZHEIYANGHUILINGZIJIBEIYALISHIFENDA,FANERJUEDEHUIJIAMEIYOUYIYILE。

      3、标明自己的婚姻情绪

      ZANMENBIXUYAOXIANGJIARENBIAOMINGZIJIDEHUNYINQINGXU,HUNYINBUSHIERXI,ZHAOYIGEHESHIZIJIDERENBINGFEIJIANDAN,YAOTANDELAI,XINGGEYAOHEPAI,SANGUANZUIHAOYIZHIDENG,BINGFEIZIJIBUXIANGCHENGHUN,ERSHIHAIMEIYOUYUSHANGDUIDEREN,RANGJIALIRENDINGXIN。YUANFENDEDONGXIZHEJIBULAI,YUSHANGDUIDERENJIUZIRANERRAN。

      4、谅解爸爸妈妈的过度关心

      HUOXUNIHUISHIFENDEFANZAOBABAMAMAZUZHIDEGEZHONGXIANGQIN,SHENZHIHUIYANEXIANGQIN。DANSHIBUNENGGOUZHIYIBABAMAMADEYIPIANAIZIZHIXIN,YAOLIANGJIEBABAMAMADEAIZHIQIE。NENGGOUGAOZHIBABAMAMAZIJIBUXIANGJINGGUOXIANGQINDEFANGFALAICHUMOLINGYIBAN,ERQIEGAOZHIBABAMAMAZIJIHUISHIZHEQUCHUMOSHENBIANDEJUEDEHESHIDEYIXING,RANGBABAMAMADINGXIN,ZHEIYANGBABAMAMAHUOXUHUILIANGJIENI,BUHUIZAICHIZAOZUZHIXIANGQINDAHUI。

      5、学会交流

      DANGJIARENTICHUYAOJINIWUSEMUBIAOXIANGQINSHI,NIBUYAOZHANGKOUBIKOUJIUSHUO:“BUYAO。”ZHEIYANGHUIXIANDENITEBIEDEBULIJIEDAREN,BULIMAO,PANNIZHANGDACHENGREN,KANNICHENGJIALIYE,JIARENDECHUFADIANDOUSHIHAODE。YAOXUEHUIHEJIARENJINGXIAXINLAIMANMANJIAOLIU,JIANGZIJIPAIJIXIANGQINDEFANGFAGAOZHIJIAREN,ERQIEGAOZHIJIARENZIJIHUIZHENXIYUANFENDE,ZHIYAOYUSHANGDUIDEREN,JIUHUICHANGSHIZHEJIAOWANG。

      温馨提示:假如拗不过爸爸妈妈,硬着头皮去相亲,且相亲没有收获时,也不要为了相信这件事情和家人大吵大闹,弄得双方不愉快,毕竟家和万事兴。